Domestic violence survivor is grateful for Rep. Emilia Sykes' dedication
I will never forget the moment he pulled the gun, pointed it at my chest, and told me I was going to die. Lying there, bleeding, I wondered if that would be my final night on earth. That moment changed everything.
My name is Diona Clark. I am a survivor of domestic violence. Since that night, I have worked to rebuild my life, and I have tried to use my story to help others know they are not alone.
One thing I have learned is that no survivor should have to face abuse in silence. There are organizations, like the Ohio Domestic Violence Network (ODVN), that provide shelter, counseling and legal assistance.
But even with these vital services, thousands of survivors seeking help are turned away each year. I know how critical these resources are, because I needed them myself.
I am especially thankful to U.S. Rep. Emilia Sykes, D-Akron, for her unwavering support of survivors like me. I had the honor of standing by her side in 2018 when Ohio House Bill 1 was signed into law by then-Gov. John Kasich. That moment was a powerful reminder of what committed leaders can do to make life safer for survivors. Being there in that moment, seeing the law take effect, and witnessing Sykes’ dedication up close left a lasting impact on me.
When I was too afraid — hiding behind the shadows of my pain and trauma — connecting with Sykes was one of the best things that could have happened to me. She showed a deep passion for creating better laws for survivors and demonstrated a true understanding of my experiences with domestic violence.
Her encouragement gave me strength. Through her advocacy, it felt as though she placed a cape on my shoulders—and in that moment, I found my voice.
Because she saw the need to uplift and support DV survivors, I stand here today saying: I am what hope looks like for someone who has experienced domestic violence. It was a moment of hope and validation for everyone who had experienced abuse, showing that our stories can lead to real change.
She recently reintroduced the Fair Social Security for Domestic Violence Survivors Act, the Better Care for Domestic Violence Survivors Act and the Break Free from Domestic Violence Act. These bills are designed to protect survivors and strengthen support systems nationwide. Knowing that someone in Congress is actively working to make life safer for people like me gives me hope and comfort. Her work shows that survivors’ voices matter and that progress is possible when leaders are committed.
Rep. Sykes’ leadership is personal for survivors. Her consistent advocacy sends a message that we are seen, our stories matter and our safety matters. For those of us who have lived through the trauma of domestic violence, that support is more than legislation. It is a lifeline.
By: Diona Clark
Source: Akron Beacon Journal